{"id":12136,"date":"2016-06-08T12:21:30","date_gmt":"2016-06-08T11:21:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shekulliagency.com\/?p=12136"},"modified":"2016-06-08T12:22:53","modified_gmt":"2016-06-08T11:22:53","slug":"nga-eroll-velija-buzeqeshja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/?p=12136","title":{"rendered":"Nga Eroll VELIJA: BUZ\u00cbQESHJA"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"111-5444\"<\/a>Buz\u00ebqeshja \u00ebsht\u00eb arm\u00eb shum\u00eb e fuqishme josh\u00ebse mes cifteve. P\u00ebr ti l\u00ebr\u00eb mbresa partnerit tuaj, buz\u00ebqeshja \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sikurse ajri p\u00ebr mushk\u00ebri. Ajo hap\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e komunikimit dhe zbut\u00eb edhe zemrat me t\u00eb ngurta…<\/p>\n

Flitet se arma m\u00eb e fuqishme e shum\u00eb njer\u00ebzve \u00ebsht\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshja. Me qeshje lirohet nj\u00eb sasi e madhe e energjis\u00eb nervore. Qeshja i zbut\u00eb pasojat e stresit \u00e7far\u00ebdo lloji qoft\u00eb ajo. Sikur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb na d\u00ebshmojn\u00eb me mjaft\u00eb sukses aktoret e famshme si Xhulia Roberts, pastaj Katarina Zeta Xhonsi t\u00eb cilat v\u00ebrtet kan\u00eb nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje mrekullisht t\u00eb bukur dhe t\u00eb gjer\u00eb. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre plot\u00ebsisht i kushtojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje fjal\u00ebve p\u00ebrderisa si p\u00ebr \u00e7udi gati pothuajse n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi e l\u00ebn\u00eb anash gjuh\u00ebn trupore, ato l\u00ebvizje t\u00eb trupit dhe t\u00eb fytyr\u00ebs. P\u00ebrkundrazi, n\u00ebse dikush d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb arrij p\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb mir\u00eb te pala tjet\u00ebr, duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj se kjo n\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb madhe varet nga buz\u00ebqeshja si dhe nga mimikat e fytyres.<\/p>\n

Ata q\u00eb merren me studimin e mimik\u00ebs na b\u00ebjn\u00eb me dije se ekzistojn\u00eb disa tipa t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjes dhe secila e ka dometh\u00ebnien e vet. Ajo mjaft mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb na e zbuloj\u00eb karakterin e nj\u00eb njeriu. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz buz\u00ebqeshjen e p\u00ebrdorin si mask\u00eb p\u00ebr ti fshehur emocionet e verteta. Me siguri keni pasur raste n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj tja parashtroni dikujt ndonj\u00eb pyetje dhe si p\u00ebrgjigje ka pasuar buz\u00ebqeshja dhe nd\u00ebrrimi i tem\u00ebs. Kjo tregon se keni ngacmuar fuqish\u00ebm emocionet e personit dhe p\u00ebr ta mbajtur kontrollin ju \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur me buz\u00ebqeshje. Disa hulumtues theksojn\u00eb se personat q\u00eb qeshen edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur nuk kan\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se nuk kan\u00eb siguri n\u00eb vete. N\u00ebse dikush qeshet fort edhe n\u00ebse ja tregoni ndonj\u00eb mahi t\u00eb pakrip\u00eb, me k\u00ebt\u00eb ju e zbuloni sensin e dob\u00ebt p\u00ebr humor t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n

Gjith\u00eb neve na kujtohet ajo buz\u00ebqeshje misterioze e Mona Liz\u00ebs nga piktura e Leonardo Da Vin\u00e7it. Buz\u00ebt e mbledhur n\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje enigmatike t\u00eb cilat mezi puthiten e q\u00eb fare pak v\u00ebrehen. Personat e till\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje, thon\u00eb psikolog\u00ebt, jan\u00eb t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb pasigurt ndaj vetes dhe te tjereve.<\/p>\n

Buz\u00ebqeshja e hapur dhe e ngroht\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb karakteristik\u00eb e personave shum\u00eb pozitiv\u00eb. Personat e till\u00eb jan\u00eb me at\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se sa jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur q\u00eb takohen me dik\u00eb. Buz\u00ebqeshja e till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb josh\u00ebse dhe te ben per vete.<\/p>\n

Buz\u00ebqeshja plot\u00ebsisht e hapur gati infektive \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb dominon n\u00eb gjith\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn. Moll\u00ebzat e faqeve jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngritura, k\u00ebndet e buz\u00ebve t\u00eb ngrehura e syt\u00eb shk\u00eblqejn\u00eb si yje.<\/p>\n

Buz\u00ebqeshja ka efekte Sherrues<\/p>\n

Sa her\u00eb qe njeriu qeshe, truri liron nj\u00eb materie q\u00eb quhet endorfin, hormon ky q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur . Po sa t\u00eb qeshni b\u00ebheni t\u00eb lumtur, e kur njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb i lumtur, qeshe edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Si foshnje njeriu m\u00ebsohet t\u00eb komunikoj p\u00ebrmes qeshjes. Kur n\u00ebna qeshe, edhe foshnja qeshe. P\u00ebr ta v\u00ebrtetuar efektin terapeutik t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjes, mjafton t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendim se sa mir\u00eb ndjehet njeriu kur dikush i fal buz\u00ebqeshje. Ndjeni nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb edhe ju ti buz\u00ebqeshni. Disponimi i juaj barazohet me disponimin e njeriut q\u00eb u ka dhuruar buz\u00ebqeshje, pasiguria dhe dyshimi humbet dhe aty p\u00ebr aty krijohet nj\u00ebfar\u00eb lidhje e k\u00ebndshme n\u00eb raportet tuaja.<\/p>\n

Buz\u00ebqeshja e sinqert\u00eb dhe e gjer\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e dobishme n\u00eb miq\u00ebsi. Me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb mund tja ktheni disponimin dikujt nga pik\u00ebllimi. Paramendoni dik\u00eb q\u00eb e njihni t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar e q\u00eb qan\u00eb pa kontroll. Pasi tju tregoj arsyen dhuroni vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje , do t\u00eb ndryshoj edhe disponimi i pal\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet ja b\u00ebni me dije se me v\u00ebmendje e keni d\u00ebgjuar dhe jeni t\u00eb interesuar p\u00ebr problemet qe ka personi.<\/p>\n

N\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet d\u00ebshironi ta joshni simpatin\u00eb tuaj, ja nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e buz\u00ebqeshjes q\u00eb do ta mbaj mend gjat\u00eb: Shikoni anash, pastaj shikoni simpatin\u00eb tuaj pa e l\u00ebvizur kok\u00ebn dhe buz\u00ebqeshni q\u00eb shk\u00eblqimi t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet n\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj kur ta vendosni kontaktin me syt\u00eb e simpatis\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos aktroni gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, po t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshni nga zemra. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb aktrohet gjat\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjes. Hipokrizia shum\u00eb shpejt\u00eb kuptohet nga njer\u00ebzit te tjer\u00eb dhe v\u00ebrtet dallohet nga buz\u00ebqeshja e ngroht\u00eb dhe e sinqert\u00eb, ngase syt\u00eb n\u00eb vend se t\u00eb shk\u00eblqejn\u00eb mbeten t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb. N\u00ebse arrini t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshni ngroht\u00eb, mund t\u00eb fitoni gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi nga njer\u00ebzit tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Buz\u00ebqeshja \u00ebsht\u00eb arm\u00eb shum\u00eb e fuqishme josh\u00ebse mes cifteve. P\u00ebr ti l\u00ebr\u00eb mbresa partnerit tuaj, buz\u00ebqeshja \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sikurse ajri p\u00ebr mushk\u00ebri. Ajo hap\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e komunikimit dhe zbut\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12137,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12136","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-poeziletersi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12136"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12136"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12136\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12138,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12136\/revisions\/12138"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}