{"id":14989,"date":"2016-10-01T11:56:11","date_gmt":"2016-10-01T09:56:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shekulliagency.com\/?p=14989"},"modified":"2016-10-01T11:56:48","modified_gmt":"2016-10-01T09:56:48","slug":"ti-shpetojme-femrat-shqiptare-nga-konkurrenca-e-pandershme-me-prostitutat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/?p=14989","title":{"rendered":"T\u2019i shp\u00ebtojm\u00eb femrat shqiptare nga konkurrenca e pandershme me prostitutat"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"mile-87766\"<\/a>Nga: Klementin Mile<\/strong><\/p>\n

Propozimi p\u00ebr ta legalizuar prostitucionin n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb argumentuar deri tani n\u00eb terma ekonomik\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se ekonomia shqiptare do t\u00eb stimulohej fuqish\u00ebm nga kjo gj\u00eb, se do t\u00eb zhvillohej sektori i turizmit seksual, i cili do t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqte t\u00eb huajt, dhe se mjafton t\u00eb hedhim syt\u00eb nga Gjermania, Holanda apo Greqia p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb shembull dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u siguruar se gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Problemi me k\u00ebt\u00eb argument \u00ebsht\u00eb reduktimi i vlerave n\u00eb vler\u00eb vet\u00ebm ekonomike. Sado e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt priren sot drejt materiales, nuk ka megjithat\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebna q\u00eb d\u00ebshmojn\u00eb se asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr nuk ka m\u00eb vler\u00eb p\u00ebr ta. Dhe n\u00eb fakt, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb theksohen p\u00ebrfitimet ekonomike nga legalizimi i prostitucionit, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb dyshohet p\u00ebr kostot sociale dhe morale t\u00eb tij. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb paradoksale, edhe vet\u00eb vlera ekonomike e artikuluar nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb vler\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve. Kjo sepse vlerat kan\u00eb nj\u00eb specifik\u00eb: ato jan\u00eb referenca p\u00ebr komunikimin, por nuk mund t\u00eb komunikohen. Vlerat udh\u00ebzojn\u00eb vendimet dhe veprimet njer\u00ebzore, por ato vet\u00eb jan\u00eb jasht\u00eb \u00e7do debati dhe diskutimi. Mund t\u00eb debatosh me vlerat, por nuk mund t\u00eb debatosh p\u00ebr vlerat. N\u00ebse b\u00ebhet e debatueshme dhe e diskutueshme, vlera e vler\u00ebs vihet n\u00eb dyshim dhe e humbet fuqin\u00eb bind\u00ebse, pasi k\u00ebshtu transformohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb krejt t\u00eb r\u00ebndomt\u00eb, p\u00ebr vler\u00ebn e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs, ashtu si n\u00eb \u00e7do rast tjet\u00ebr, do t\u00eb vendos\u00eb debati ose diskutimi.<\/p>\n

Dhe n\u00eb fakt argumenti ekonomik p\u00ebr legalizimin e prostitucionit po shpie drejt nj\u00eb debati p\u00ebr vlerat, drejt nj\u00eb zgjedhjeje: paraja apo morali? Nj\u00eb debat i k\u00ebtij lloji patjet\u00ebr vlen p\u00ebr t\u00eb konturuar kampe kund\u00ebrshtare, p\u00ebr t\u00eb dalluar ideologjikisht progresist\u00ebt nga konservator\u00ebt, por me koston e zhvler\u00ebsimit n\u00eb komunikimin publik si t\u00eb vler\u00ebs s\u00eb paras\u00eb ashtu dhe vler\u00ebs s\u00eb moralit. Prandaj nevojitet nj\u00eb argument tjet\u00ebr, jo ekonomik p\u00ebr legalizimin e prostitucionit. Nj\u00eb argument q\u00eb nuk i v\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb paran\u00eb me moralin, por q\u00eb ua ruan vler\u00ebn t\u00eb dyjave n\u00eb nj\u00eb unitet t\u00eb padiskutuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

Ideja baz\u00eb e k\u00ebtij argumenti jo ekonomik \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb legalizimi i prostitucionit nuk e p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebson situat\u00ebn morale; p\u00ebrkundrazi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mjet q\u00eb i vjen n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb moralitetit. Le t\u00eb nisemi nga nj\u00eb v\u00ebzhgim sociologjik dhe disa premisa faktike. E dim\u00eb q\u00eb prostitucioni, edhe pse i paligjsh\u00ebm, ekziston n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Madje burime t\u00eb ndryshme thon\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft i p\u00ebrhapur. Nj\u00eb konservator nuk ka pse t\u2019u besoj\u00eb k\u00ebtyre burimeve, por ama mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtitje nga zona e ish-Bllokut n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Aty do t\u00eb shoh\u00eb se shumica e femrave nuk kan\u00eb patur aspak kujdes p\u00ebr t\u2019i mbuluar hiret e tyre; p\u00ebrkundrazi, duket se kan\u00eb patur shum\u00eb kujdes p\u00ebr t\u2019i zbuluar sa m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pjes\u00ebt provokuese t\u00eb trupit. Nuk kan\u00eb faj t\u00eb huajt t\u00eb cil\u00ebve u bie rruga andej dhe pyesin shoq\u00ebruesin shqiptar: \u201cN\u00eb vendin tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i ligjsh\u00ebm prostitucioni?\u201d<\/p>\n

Por si ndodh ky fenomen? Pse t\u00eb huajt i marrin p\u00ebr prostituta femrat shqiptare q\u00eb nuk e kryejn\u00eb at\u00eb profesion? \u00c7far\u00eb e ka sjell\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb konfuzion? Nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ka gjithmon\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr modele q\u00eb t\u2019i ndjek\u00eb, p\u00ebr modele q\u00eb krijojn\u00eb mod\u00ebn e asaj shoq\u00ebrie. N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri mod\u00ebn e vendosin prostitutat, sigurisht, ato t\u00eb klasit t\u00eb lart\u00eb \u2013 ato q\u00eb punojn\u00eb nat\u00ebn si eskort\u00eb vip, nd\u00ebrsa dit\u00ebn si k\u00ebng\u00ebtare, aktore, prezantuese etj. Duke qen\u00eb n\u00eb masmedia (dhe pse t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb, seksi shet) ato i kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha mjetet p\u00ebr t\u2019iu imponuar femrave t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur standardin e veshjes dhe t\u00eb sjelljes. Gazetat dhe revistat i ndjekin pas ngado dhe raportojn\u00eb p\u00ebr sukseset dhe aventurat e tyre. Nga \u00e7do burim mediatik kumbon mesazhi \u201cpo t\u00eb mos vishesh dhe sillesh si un\u00eb, do jesh nj\u00eb d\u00ebshtake e mjer\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde; nuk do arrish kurr\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebsh v\u00ebmendjen e meshkujve!\u201d<\/p>\n

Ky mesazh nuk mund t\u00eb injorohet; femrat kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e meshkujve. Por fatkeq\u00ebsisht kan\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb model suksesi p\u00ebr ta arritur k\u00ebt\u00eb: at\u00eb q\u00eb thot\u00eb zhvishuni sa m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Ky model ka sjell\u00eb doza pornografie t\u00eb m\u00ebdha n\u00ebp\u00ebr ambientet publike dhe e ka zvog\u00ebluar shum\u00eb elementin e erosit. Dhe si\u00e7 na e b\u00ebn t\u00eb qart\u00eb filozofi grek Platoni, pa eros nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb dashuri, por vet\u00ebm shk\u00ebmbime favoresh seksuale. P\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa prostitutat vip nuk do t\u00eb cil\u00ebsohen si t\u00eb tilla, si prostituta, por do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb nderohen n\u00eb televizione, gazeta e revista, ky model do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb kultivohet. Ato do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb Fashion TV-ja e femrave shqiptare.<\/p>\n

At\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb sillte legalizimi i prostitucionit? S\u00eb pari, do na shp\u00ebtonte nga nj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri q\u00eb ndjek thuajse e gjitha modelin e nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie publike, duke e izoluar fenomenin e prostitucionit n\u00eb zona t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, n\u00ebse sot shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e kontrollon modeli i prostitucionit t\u00eb paligjsh\u00ebm, nes\u00ebr shoq\u00ebria do mund ta kontrollonte prostitucionin e ligjsh\u00ebm. S\u00eb dyti, izolimi i fenomenit t\u00eb prostitucionit do t\u00eb sillte jo vet\u00ebm identifikimin e prostitutave, por edhe vendosjen e nj\u00eb kufiri mes prostitutave dhe femrave t\u00eb tjera, me q\u00ebllim shmangien e stigm\u00ebs sociale. Kur prostitutat t\u00eb mos quhen m\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00ebtare apo prezantuese t\u00eb suksesshme, por vet\u00ebm prostituta profesioni i t\u00eb cilave ligj\u00ebrohet dhe kontrollohet nga shteti, vetvetiu do t\u00eb krijohet nj\u00eb kujdes te femrat e tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos u ngjar\u00eb n\u00eb asnj\u00eb aspekt t\u00eb veshjes dhe t\u00eb sjelljes. S\u00eb treti, pas vendosjes s\u00eb k\u00ebtij kufiri, femrat do mund t\u00eb zhvillonin modele t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb suksesshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen e meshkujve. Do t\u00eb shihnim t\u00eb kultivohet t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht potenciali shpirt\u00ebror dhe erotik i femrave \u2013 potencial aktualisht i ndrydhur \u2013 larg konkurrenc\u00ebs s\u00eb pandershme me pornografin\u00eb materialiste t\u00eb prostitutave.<\/p>\n

Pedagog n\u00eb UET<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga: Klementin Mile Propozimi p\u00ebr ta legalizuar prostitucionin n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb argumentuar deri tani n\u00eb terma ekonomik\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se ekonomia shqiptare do t\u00eb stimulohej fuqish\u00ebm nga kjo gj\u00eb, se…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14990,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14989","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinionanaliza"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14989"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14989"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14989\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14992,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14989\/revisions\/14992"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14990"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14989"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14989"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14989"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}