{"id":17573,"date":"2017-01-19T09:28:01","date_gmt":"2017-01-19T08:28:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shekulliagency.com\/?p=17573"},"modified":"2017-01-19T20:31:24","modified_gmt":"2017-01-19T19:31:24","slug":"te-dua-e-panjohur-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/?p=17573","title":{"rendered":"T\u00cb DUA E PANJOHUR"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Rami Kamberi<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00eb kuptosh se dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb loj\u00eb jete, por ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb lidh me t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn n\u00eb kuptimin jetik, k\u00ebt\u00eb na e d\u00ebshmon libri me tregime, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon te jesh kalor\u00ebs i jet\u00ebs, drejt\u00eb shtigjeve, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Pra, ecja drejt t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebs n\u00eb kuptimin jetik, p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllimi i ri me tregime i shkrimtarit Eroll Velija<\/a>. Them k\u00ebshtu, sepse vet\u00eb titulli i librit T\u00eb dua e panjohur t\u00eb drejton andej, ku dashuria nuk preket n\u00eb kuptimin fizik, por, k\u00ebrkohet n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00ebt e jet\u00ebs, ashtu si\u00e7 e imagjinon vet\u00eb autori dhe at\u00eb:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Duke e shtruar dashurin\u00eb, mbi shtratin e imagjinat\u00ebs,
\n\u2022 Duke e k\u00ebrkuar lumturin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb, mbi \u00ebndrr\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs,
\n\u2022 Duke e k\u00ebrkuar jet\u00ebn, n\u00ebp\u00ebr lumturin\u00eb e panjohur dhe,
\n\u2022 Duke u dashuruar n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>M\u00eb tej, po t\u00eb udh\u00ebtojm\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr tregimet e librit, do t\u00eb shohim edhe drama jete mes dashuris\u00eb dhe jetikes, dhe ecjet q\u00eb here-her\u00eb intrigojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e ecjeve kah dashuria p\u00ebr t\u00eb ra n\u00ebn ndikimin e mendimit t\u00eb bot\u00ebkuptimit apo m\u00eb mir\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb bindjes s\u00eb lidhur p\u00ebr madhoren e jet\u00ebs tradicionale, q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb miri na e tregon fundi i librit me tregimin Ndenja e inferioritetit, ku autori pyetet se pse jeta nuk jetohet sipas parimit t\u00eb besimit t\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, dhe at\u00eb duke u pyetur, pse nuk jetohet dhe pse nuk dashurohet sipas dashuris\u00eb ku qepen bukurit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs. Ndaj, lirsh\u00ebm mund t\u00eb them se brenda shum\u00eb tregimeve, shkrimtari Erol Velija m\u00ebton t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq nj\u00eb paralele mes dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb sotme q\u00eb ka konflikt mes e p\u00ebrmes njohjes p\u00ebr dashuri t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet dhe, dashuris\u00eb, q\u00eb, sipas koh\u00ebs s\u00eb sotme shikohet si sundim mbi dashurin\u00eb ku fjal\u00ebn duhet ta ket\u00eb vet\u00ebm sundimtari mbi dashurin\u00eb, q\u00eb aludon n\u00eb faktorin e s\u00eb keqes, si rojtar i dashuris\u00eb e, faktori i s\u00eb mir\u00ebs, si zbatuese e dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ky mendim, vjen si rrjedhoj\u00eb i shum\u00eb d\u00ebshmive brenda tregimeve, q\u00eb autori na i sjell\u00eb si shkak, p\u00ebr arsyen se pse edhe vet\u00eb titulli i librit q\u00ebndron T\u00eb dua e panjohur.<\/p>\n

Dhe, e v\u00ebrteta e nj\u00eb dashuria, si\u00e7 e do autori, brenda t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebs, q\u00ebndron n\u00ebn boshtin e fush\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, ku jeta k\u00ebrkon m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb shihet, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb preket, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb kuptimin fizik, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb imagjinar.<\/p>\n

Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb thosha edhe shum\u00eb detaje t\u00eb tjera mbi dhjet\u00ebra tregime, ku kryq\u00ebzohen e sotmja dhe e kaluara e ardhmja dhe e sotmja, por, duke mos dashur m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zhvesh gjeografin\u00eb e librit dhe, duke dashur q\u00eb secili lexues ta shijoj sipas ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, do t\u00eb mundohem q\u00eb ket\u00eb lib\u00ebr me tregime t\u00eb shkrimtarit Eroll Velija ta rrumbullakoj mbi tri parime, t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat parime autori i sh\u00ebnjon, por, me ose pa dashje i tejkalon, ngase sipas vet\u00eb tregimeve, d\u00ebshmohet se autori do te mbetet dashnor i dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb panjohur. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, tri parimet, q\u00eb v\u00ebrehen brenda tregimeve si:<\/p>\n

\u2022 koha n\u00ebp\u00ebr koh\u00eb,
\n\u2022 dashuria p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb dhe,
\n\u2022 jeta p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Mbeten si tri shtigje kah t\u00eb ecet drejt\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, q\u00eb p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb panjohura, p\u00ebrderisa nuk shtrohen mbi shtratin e lumturis\u00eb s\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Ndaj, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos e prekur t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebn p\u00ebr dashuri, uroj q\u00eb secili lexues t\u00eb njihet me t\u00eb, kuptohet, duke e k\u00ebrkuar brenda librit T\u00eb dua e panjohur, lib\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin autori Eroll Velija na e shfaq si nj\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje, p\u00ebr t\u2019u dashuruar n\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb, q\u00eb secilit njeri i takon q\u00eb ta ket\u00eb si t\u00eb dashur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Rami Kamberi T\u00eb kuptosh se dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb loj\u00eb jete, por ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb lidh me t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn n\u00eb kuptimin jetik, k\u00ebt\u00eb na e d\u00ebshmon libri me tregime, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17559,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17573","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-poeziletersi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17573"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17573"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17573\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17578,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17573\/revisions\/17578"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/17559"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}