{"id":26546,"date":"2018-10-29T14:34:34","date_gmt":"2018-10-29T13:34:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shekulliagency.com\/?p=26546"},"modified":"2018-10-29T14:34:34","modified_gmt":"2018-10-29T13:34:34","slug":"viktima-e-abuzimit-seksual-kisha-katolike-parajse-per-pedofilet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/?p=26546","title":{"rendered":"Viktima e abuzimit seksual: Kisha Katolike, parajs\u00eb p\u00ebr pedofil\u00ebt"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Piero Brogi, nj\u00eb nga viktimat e abuzimeve seksuale t\u00eb klerik\u00ebve t\u00eb krishter\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur ka qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, tha se problemi i abuzimeve ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve ka zgjatur me vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe kjo gj\u00eb e ka shnd\u00ebrruar Kish\u00ebn Katolike n\u00eb nj\u00eb parajs\u00eb p\u00ebr pedofil\u00ebt, pasi aty kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb dhe nuk jan\u00eb nd\u00ebshkuar.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr Anadolu (AA), Brogi thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb abuzuar seksualisht n\u00eb mosh\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebvje\u00e7are n\u00eb Rom\u00eb nga ana e Minsinjor Angeli Pio Loco Boscarial.<\/p>\n

“Kam vuajtur nga humbja e kujtes\u00ebs si pasoj\u00eb e traumave nga ky rast. Kam humbur pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha kujtimet e mia nga incidenti, por nuk i harroj kurr\u00eb kujdesin anormal t\u00eb priftit, m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si luante me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe puthjet e tij t\u00eb neveritshme”, shprehet Brogi.<\/p>\n

Duke shpjeguar se abuzimi seksual ndaj tij ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb binte n\u00eb nj\u00eb paradoks t\u00eb “pap\u00ebrballuesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb pazgjidhsh\u00ebm”, Brogi tha se truri i tij i ka fshir\u00eb kujtimet e abuzimit me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb ta pengoj\u00eb \u00e7mendjen.<\/p>\n

Megjithat\u00eb, Brogi thot\u00eb se ende i kujtohen pamje t\u00eb turbullta n\u00eb lidhje me koh\u00ebt kur ka qen\u00eb viktim\u00eb e abuzimit, duke rr\u00ebfyer se aktet kan\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb vende t\u00eb ndryshme dhe se \u00ebsht\u00eb abuzuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb her\u00eb nga personi n\u00eb fjal\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Brogi tregon se shpesh i parashtrohet pyetje se pse k\u00ebto tema nuk jan\u00eb shpalosur m\u00eb her\u00ebt ose pse at\u00eb periudh\u00eb askush nuk i ka treguar asgj\u00eb askujt. Ai p\u00ebrgjigjet se krahas humbjes s\u00eb kujtes\u00ebs si pasoj\u00eb e traumave, edhe turpi nga k\u00ebto incidente \u00ebsht\u00eb faktor q\u00eb ka ndikuar q\u00eb abuzimet t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb heshtje.<\/p>\n

“Ekziston nj\u00eb turp nga ‘zgjedhja’ p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i abuzuar. N\u00eb mosh\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebvje\u00e7are nuk ekziston vet\u00ebdije q\u00eb t\u00eb ngrit\u00ebsh z\u00ebrin dhe t\u00eb ‘tregosh burr\u00ebri’. Pedofil\u00ebt e din\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrdorin k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb moszhvillimi t\u00eb viktimave p\u00ebr t’i akzuar dhe kontrolluar ata. P\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga dob\u00ebsia e tyre”, vler\u00ebson Brogi.<\/p>\n

Brogi thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i abuzuar i mosh\u00ebs n\u00ebnt\u00eb, dhjet\u00eb apo 15 vje\u00e7e t\u00eb ndihet i pafuqish\u00ebm ndaj nj\u00eb t\u00eb rrituri apo nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues fetar.<\/p>\n

Ai m\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebrmes disa letrave e ka informuar Kardinalin Angelo De Donatis, autoritetet p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse t\u00eb kish\u00ebs dhe personin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, por nuk ka marr\u00eb asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje.<\/p>\n

“K\u00ebto heshtje tregojn\u00eb p\u00ebr s\u00ebmundjen e thell\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb italiane dhe t\u00eb pal\u00ebs katolike n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, sepse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e dinin ose dyshonin se Monsinjor Angelo ngacmonte f\u00ebmij\u00ebt”, tha ai.<\/p>\n

Brogi shpjegoi se familjet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb abuzuar ishin ankuar vet\u00ebm tek zyrtar\u00ebt e kish\u00ebs pa zbuluar incidentin. K\u00ebshtu, thekson ai, prift\u00ebrinjt\u00eb pedofil\u00eb d\u00ebrgoheshin n\u00eb nj\u00eb rajon tjet\u00ebr pa asnj\u00eb d\u00ebnim dhe vazhdonin t\u00eb abuzonin me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

Sipas Ligjit t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs, pedofilia konsiderohet “krim kund\u00ebr Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, e jo ndaj personit” dhe “me disa k\u00ebshilla dhe shlyerje”, shpjegoi ai, prift\u00ebrinjt\u00eb pedofil\u00eb mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb nga situata.<\/p>\n

“Kisha Katolike nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb sekt, por edhe nj\u00eb fuqi politike dhe shtet i pavarur. Vatikani ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb merret me k\u00ebto kriminel\u00eb p\u00ebrmes gjyqtar\u00ebve, ligjeve, ekzistenc\u00ebs s\u00eb saj dhe diplomacis\u00eb. Ky absolutiz\u00ebm kund\u00ebrshton t\u00eb drejtat m\u00eb themelore nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare”, thot\u00eb Brogi, duke e konsideruar shtetin italian si bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb marr\u00ebveshjeve me kish\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

“Kisha nuk ka asnj\u00eb detyrim p\u00ebr t\u00eb informuar autoritetet italiane p\u00ebr krimet q\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni, por, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, gjyqtar\u00ebt italian\u00eb duhet t\u00eb informojn\u00eb Vatikanin n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb fillon nj\u00eb hetim ndaj nj\u00eb prifti. Si mund t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh drejt\u00ebsi n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend ku ligji nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar shkelet nga marr\u00ebveshje t\u00eb tilla inferioriteti? P\u00ebrkund\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb mira t\u00eb pap\u00ebs, sot ende mbizot\u00ebron ky fakt. Ky problem zgjati p\u00ebr dekada dhe e shnd\u00ebrroi Kish\u00ebn Katolike n\u00eb nj\u00eb parajs\u00eb p\u00ebr pedofil\u00ebt, sepse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt atje dhe nuk d\u00ebnohen”, shton Brogi.<\/p>\n

Megjithat\u00eb, thot\u00eb ai, njer\u00ebzit tashm\u00eb kan\u00eb hapur syt\u00eb dhe viktimat kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr abuzimet, gj\u00eb q\u00eb, sipas tij, ka krijuar vet\u00ebdij\u00ebsim. Brogi thekson se n\u00ebse Kisha Katolike nuk shp\u00ebton nga k\u00ebta “monstra”, ajo nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb cop\u00ebtohet.<\/p>\n

Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i mendimit se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb zyrtar\u00ebt e lart\u00eb, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb edhe pap\u00ebn, jan\u00eb fajtor pasi jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt n\u00eb krim ose nuk e kan\u00eb denoncuar at\u00eb. Sipas akuzave t\u00eb fundit, thot\u00eb ai, ka pik\u00ebpyetje n\u00eb lidhje me nj\u00eb involvim t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm t\u00eb pap\u00ebs n\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn pes\u00eb incidente.<\/p>\n

Sipas tij, prift\u00ebrinjt\u00eb pedofil\u00eb duhet denoncuar dhe gjykuar n\u00eb vendet ku kan\u00eb kryer krim, e jo nga kisha e Vatikanit.<\/p>\n

“Ky turp dhe kjo heshtje nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb na vras\u00eb ne, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb dhe n\u00eb fund edhe kish\u00ebn”, tha Brogi, viktim\u00eb e abuzimeve seksuale brenda kish\u00ebs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Piero Brogi, nj\u00eb nga viktimat e abuzimeve seksuale t\u00eb klerik\u00ebve t\u00eb krishter\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur ka qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, tha se problemi i abuzimeve ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve ka zgjatur me vite t\u00eb…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11600,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26546","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-reflektim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26546"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26546"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26547,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26546\/revisions\/26547"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alb.shekulliagency.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}